MTV Movie & TV Awards host Zachary Levi actually went there with Ray J in the house to make a joke about his 2003 sex tape with Kim Kardashian. It s been 16 years since Kim Kardashian and then-boyfriend Ray J made a sex tape, and 12 years since it was leaked. Not only that, his. Kimberly Kardashian West is an American media personality, businesswoman, socialite, model and actress. West first gained media attention as a friend and stylist of Paris Hilton but received wider notice after a 2003 sex tape with her former boyfriend Ray J, Kim Kardashian, Superstar,